Personal Space

Your personal space will be invaded in the city setting. Greetings consist of a kiss on the cheek and a light embrace for girls to girls and guys and girls, and a handshake/brief embrace for guys. Learn the proper handshake if you’re a guy. It took me a while but once you learn it, you’ll earn some respect and look less like a foreigner. People will not be shy about giving hugs and grabbing you to show you something so just observe and follow what everyone else is doing, but just know that there isn’t an emphasis on personal boundaries.

Talk to the cabbies

“A great way to practice Chinese in China is to talk to cab drivers. The minute they realize you speak Chinese, they always engage you in great conversation and bring up current hot topics in order to see your opinion. I found this a great way to practice casual conversation while on the go.” – Arielle Fox, CC ‘11

On being Jewish in Paris

While there is a vibrant and active Jewish community in Paris (especially in the Marais, where you can find some of the best falafel in Europe), I found that Parisian Jews are generally not as open about their religion amongst non-Jews as what I’ve grown accustomed to living in New York City. I had the great fortune of living with a reform Jewish family in the 16th arrondissement, where there is no shortage of Jews (according to my host family), and we did Shabbat every Friday night and celebrated Passover together. However, I was warned by my host family not to openly express my religion in the presence of strangers, because it’s impossible to know “how they’d react.” I was never confronted by any sort of anti-semitism, I was just told

that it exists in Paris and may possibly be becoming an increasing problem, but I do know that my host family took special measures to ensure that their religious identity was not made obvious in public. Even when friends came over to the house, Shabbat prayers would be said discreetly in a separate room so as not to “alienate” any non-Jews. Perhaps this discretion of Parisian Jews has something to do with France’s policy of “laicite” and is not so much a question of anti-Jewish sentiment, but compared to New York City, where Jewish culture is celebrated openly and

proudly, Paris is less openly accepting. However, this is not to say that Jewish students will feel ill at ease in Paris—on the contrary, I found that although Jewish culture may be somewhat strictly confined to within the Jewish community, there is a strong sense of solidarity, warmth, and acceptance amongst Jews in Paris. Though perhaps a bit insular, the Jewish community is vibrant and the culture is incredibly rich, making it quite easy to forget that it is not a mainstream lifestyle. – Alexa Davis, CC ‘11

Academics Abroad

“I found the French university system difficult to navigate. On the first day of class, I was given a very vague syllabus and a list of topics for each week’s class. It was hard to figure out what exactly I was supposed to do especially when most French students did not ever interact with the teacher. However, in approaching the teacher American-style, I was able to figure out what was going on and the teacher ended up being especially considerate of my place as the only foreigner in his class.” Arielle Fox, CC ‘11

“I was surprised by how much different the French grading system was than the American system. In France, the grading system is out of 20. I was told right off the bat that a 20 or even 19 or 18 were extremely hard to get. It was hard to get used to getting a 15 out of 20 at first since I knew it converted to a C in the American system even though it was considered a very good grade.” Arielle Fox, CC ‘11